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Writing/Zines

Bethany's Woodshed -- The "premiere spanking site on the Web", featuring
stories by Bethany and other writers (including Clean Sheets fiction editor, Jaie Helier) as well as photos, illustrations, chat and lots more.

Dare -- "A magazine for the 21st century woman -- a little edgier, a little more raw, a little more erotic than your typical women's magazine." Publishes quarterly, with a good mix of articles, art photography, and fiction.

Blue ribbon Erotica Reader's Association: Calls for Submission -- No, not that kind of submission, the writing kind! Our favorite site on the web to find out where and how to submit your erotic writing for publication.

gettingit -- described as a "daily humor/culture webzine" that reports on the strange, the sexy, the popular, and the pathetic.

Libido Magazine -- Libido is "a literary answer to a horizontal urge" -- a journal of the erotic arts that publishes fiction, photography, poetry, fine arts, essays, interviews and reviews dealing in sex and sensibility. Yes, this is the same lovely Libido that we have enjoyed for years in print, now on the Web!

Mind Caviar --"Dedicated to Sensual Pleasures of All Types for Discriminating and Intelligent Readers." Jamie Joy Gatto's "bi-friendly place" is a visual delight full of poetry, fiction, features, recipes and art. An impressive debut (Spring 2000).

mouthorgan -- sex, gender, and culture commentary. Updated every Thursday, with fresh, provocative articles by Todd and Debby; mouthorgan also provides a reader forum for discussion.

The Mysterious Mr. Lee Organization -- "An Erotica Site for the Discriminating Anonymous Reader." This is an erotic story site, and a very good one.. Clean navigation, beautiful design, and funny, mysterious explanatory text with an attitude. It's a free site, and there was almost no advertising when we visited.

nerve° -- literate smut aims very high indeed, and certainly is among the best in the business. Very New York, but very well written, beautifully designed, and easy to navigate.

Nightcharm -- reminds us of a hard-hitting gay male version of our own site; while we're certainly not identical, there's a similar attempt at honesty, exuberant sexuality, and intelligence. They're probably a little raunchier. We think you'll like them.

The Position -- The new zine (6/00) for New York City's upcoming Museum of Sex bills itself as "the first mainstream sex magazine ever." Some might argue that point, but so far it's certainly full of interesting news, essays, erotic stories, and has probably the only retired Bishop that we know of who writes a sex column.

Savage Love, In the Onion -- Dan Savage's outstanding, funny column of sex and weirdness, found here online in "The Onion," the home of weird & wonderful writing.

Scarlet Letters -- a quarterly journal of femmerotica, this magazine is packed full of enthusiasm and excitement. Stories, poetry, art, articles and more, all delivered to you with healthy doses of honesty and humor.

Strange Horizons -- Mary Anne Mohanraj's new venture in speculative fiction, includes science fiction & fantasy articles, poetry, galleries, reviews, and editorials.

Suspect Thoughts: a journal of subversive writing -- A new quarterly zine (7/00), devoted to fiction and creative nonfiction writing about "sex, violence, pleasure, pain, murder, necrophilia, rock and roll, shift changers, alternate realities, ghosts, beauty, desire, longing, and yes, love." An impressive debut, with interesting writing and lovely art work.

Zaftig! -- edited by Hanne Blank, Zaftig! Sex for the Well Rounded is a quarterly print and e-zine devoted to real bodies, real minds, and hot, interesting writing about sex that is truly one size fits all. No people should be without their own image: Zaftig! is devoted to celebrating the sexiness of people of all genders and orientations who don't fit the mass-media body ideal. Smart smut. Real bodies. Dig in.

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Alternative, Porn & Other Good Things

Asia Carrera -- award winning, well-designed, funny, very personal, sometimes touching site. It's very much adult film star Asia's world on the web. Kudos for (among other things) two wonderful phrases -- a subscription portion called "Asia Carrera's Really Boring Pay Section," and a reference to the lower eschelon of the adult web sites as "banner filled circle jerks."

B & belle's BDSM Cafe -- free stories and pictures of the real kinky stuff, nicely categorized, from fetish to bondage to submissives to classics.

Betty Dodson Online -- personal website for Betty Dodson, PhD., author of Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving. Everything we could ask for on a sexual professional's site. A lot of good material on sex generally, and masturbation in particular, three wonderful videos teaching female masturbation, and several forums; all presented with style, honesty, and a sense of humor.

The Church of Tantra -- Everything you ever wanted to know about the world of tantra and forgot to even ask, including just how to obtain a 'sacred orgasm.'

The Deviant's Dictionary -- an 'encyclopervia of the Net.' Every sexual term you might have wondered about is here, in a dictionary intended to be fun as well as informative and responsible. Sponsored by queernet.org, a community for the gay/lesbian/ bisexual/transgendered and leather/S&M communities.

Blue ribbon Hoot Island -- sexy, funny, interviews, parody, erotic stories, pictures, one of the best link sections anywhere, and "outbursts" by island czar Wyyrd. As far as we're concerned, nobody does funny and sexy better.

Iron Rose -- "BDSM Education & Information is our passion" --if you are into BDSM as a consensual art, or wish to be, this is a great site to visit; you'll also be welcome if you've come to learn and not to sneer, regardless of your commitment. A substantial library, forums, interaction, and a store, all carefully monitored to stay friendly and safe.

JEN n DAVE's Home Page! -- a refreshing view of sex; the real, here-to-have-fun, not-a-glossy-package, smile-on-your-face kind. Lots of free pictures, a web cam, some commentary, and a lot of personality. You have to work hard not to love it.

Patches' Place -- a site devoted to "watersports" (urination as an erotic activity). Easy to navigate, intelligently written, often funny, lots of solid information, and a breezy, not-a-fetish feel about the whole site. A fine place to visit if you're into "watersports," but maybe even more interesting if you're curious, but turned off by the usual treatment of these activities as a dark fetish.

Persian Kitty -- over 130,000 free pics of, well, you know.

Section 12 -- a BDSM community, bringing a distinctive voice to the Web and the world of kinky sex. Provides extensive resources for the casual visitor, as well as an open-yet-demanding environment of rich discussion and interaction for their members.

Society for Human Sexuality, Seattle -- Devoted to acceptance and
understanding of all sexual orientations and all consensual and safe sexual
practices.

Taylor Marsh -- Site for column archives from Taylor Marsh, sex and relationship columnist for the LA Weekly. Lots of content, an attractive, well-designed site, and almost no advertising when we visited.

The Uncommon Webpage of Michael P. -- a personal exploration by a Dominant. Essays, fiction, articles and discussion, with a lot of content for a free personal site. The fiction may be the best thing there, but one or two of the stories could leave you sleeping with the lights on.

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Products

Amazon -- The Earth's Largest Bookstore is not only a great place to get your favorite erotica and sex books, but did you realize that they sell toys, gardening supplies, music and more? Check it out and see what you can find today!

Blowfish -- objets d'art, supplies, toys, books, comics, magazines, videos, and even a clearance section. Well arranged, easy to navigate, helpful, and good friends of ours. We can't imagine how you couldn't love it!

Blue Door Videos -- now you have a chance to sample adult movies before you buy them, without going to your local adult movie theater. Blue Door not only sells videos but they rent them as well! And not just mainstream porn, either, but educational sex films, classics from the days of real film and much more. Open the Blue Door and step into a whole new way to rent adult videos.

Custom Erotica Source -- one-stop shopping for a written-to-order erotic tale. Fill out the questionnaire indicating what you want, choose a staff writer or a "name" author, select an illustrator (if you wish), pay the good folks, and they send you (or your special someone) a custom erotic story.

Blue ribbonErotic Shopping -- sexy toys, videos and lingerie so hot and so reliable that we chose to host a toystore of their products. You won't be disappointed with Erotic Shopping!

Good Vibrations -- toys, books, audio, and an antique vibrator museum! A San Francisco co-op with two retail stores, several catalogs, and a great web site. Friends of ours, and a delightful, down home, sexy place.

Intimate Gifts -- products from Intimate Gifts are shipped very discreetly and they have a very generous return policy. Check out their attractive and exciting vibrators, videos, lubes, board games, books and so much more.

Iron Rose -- BDSM products -- see the description under "Alternative."

Libida -- Libida: noun (1) Female sexuality; derived from the Latin libido; desire, lust, pleasure (2) Primal female biological urges that enable the individual to achieve pleasure (3) The place where women can explore and express their sexuality. Toys, books, videos, erotica, columns and a lounge for chatting -- everything in this new site is geared primarily toward heterosexual women. An impressive debut, with editors/contributors including Susie Bright, Lisa Palac, Anne Semans, Thomas Roche, and Cara Bruce.(Fall 2000)

MWI Productions -- web site for a company producing what they describe as "hard core videos for audiences other than single, straight men." Features the "Real Couples Series." MWI also advertises a willingness to do production work for custom videos. Good, clean site navigation, interesting bios for the company employees, and no advertising, pop-ups, or capture tricks.

The Playboy Store -- Playboy is more than just a magazine these days. Check out the Playboy Store where you can buy lingerie, jewelry, collectibles and much more.

Powell's Books -- an Oregon-based bookseller that offers new and used books with discounts.

SafeDreams.com -- a condom retailer, linked to drugstore.com to also offer pregnancy and HIV test kits. Clean navigation, seemingly fair prices, good ordering system. Targeted toward women.

Toys in Babeland -- Seattle's woman-owned, woman-friendly adult toy shop. In operation since 1993, Toys in Babeland is one of the finest toy stores on or offline.

vive la différence -- primarily sells condoms, billed as "Safe Sex Choices for Women." Signature item is a box of twelve assorted, but they also sell the Reality brand, lubricants, accessories, and an enticing sounding (but unpictured) item called a "pleasure mitt".

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Sexual Health & Education

Coalition for Positive Sexuality -- The CPS was developed by a group of high school students who felt a need for more positive sex education. Tired of educational policies that restricted teachers from discussing issues such as safer sex and homosexuality, these teens took matters into their own hands and created "Just Say Yes," a booklet explaining everything the Chicago school system was not allowed to discuss. This site is a continuation of the work that began in 1992 with that booklet.

Electronic Frontier Foundation -- EFF is one of the leading organizations in the fight to protect the civil rights of Netizens worldwide.

Feminists Against Censorship --Not all feminists are anti-sex! This site will tell you more about FAC and other groups that are fighting for free expression, both on the net and off it, from bookstores to libraries, in Britain and America. Join with other feminists in defending the right to speak freely!

Go Ask Alice --Go Ask Alice is a wonderful interactive sex-advice site. Visitors can submit questions to Alice and then check back to see the answers (updated every Friday). Ask Alice began in 1993 as an internal service for Columbia University Students and was opened to the public when it proved to be so popular. Be sure to check out the extensive archives -- your question may already be answered!

National Coalition Against Censorship -- Be sure to check out the "special projects" section of NCAC's website where you'll find the Committee on Sex & Censorship. The committee, which includes such noted writers as Judy Blume, Susie Bright and Erica Jong, brings a feminist perspective to censorship debates on issues relating to sexuality, sexual orientation, and gender roles.

Planned Parenthood Federation of America -- Planned Parenthood is the world's largest and oldest voluntary family planning organization. This site provides everything from history (the books of Margaret Sanger, the founder of Planned Parenthood, were among the first to be burned by the Nazis) to up-to-date sexual health information to a directory that will help you find the Planned Parenthood nearest you.

Scarleteen -- Straight answers to sex questions for teens (and their parents) -- an excellent resource for accurate, interesting explanations and discussions of all things sexual.

Sexual Health Network -- The Sexual Health Network is a clearing house for information, advice and discussion of sex and disabilities. The site covers both non-sexual disabilities such as paralysis and sex-specific disabilities such as impotence, both physical and psychological disabilities. It appears that inclusiveness is primary, the prime function of the Network being to assist anyone who is having difficulty with their sex life for any reason.

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Guides & Link Sites

badboynews.com -- Heavily updated site linking to sex news, articles, pictures, and humor. Easy to navigate, very current, and often points you to things you'd have no other way to find.

DungeonNet.com -- "The most comprehensive directory of BDSM websites in the world." Strictly a links site, but a very well designed one. Loads quickly, very neatly categorized, navigation is excellent, the index is well laid out, it has what appears to be a good search engine, and the advertising was minimal and tasteful when we visited. Definitely in the category of "do one thing and do it well" sites.

Erotica Index -- a Yahoo style index for erotica. It has both links by categories and a good search engine, and the webmaster appears to have worked hard to screen deceptive sites out of the listings. The layout is good, and the advertising was non-deceptive and appropriately placed when we visited.

Free Pics Of Sex -- "Hardcore smut you have to see to believe," it is primarily a pictures link site, although there is an "erotic stories" section, and a few pictures on the site. Navigation could be slightly better in places, but it's largely free of deceptive advertising and well categorized.

Green Guy's Link-o-Rama -- a regularly-checked and updated listing, billing itself as "The Official Adult Links Site of the New Millenium."

Blue ribbon JanesGuide -- our favorite of the on-line guides, Jane's Guide provides detailed reviews of sex websites, evaluating design, honesty, and quality (and, of course, sexiness). Truly a thinking person's guide to sex on the net.

Lady Lynx -- "Links to Adult Sites designed for women," specializes in links to sites of interest to heterosexual women. Console free, no deceptive advertising when we visited, and the navigation is very clean. Good source for beefcake photo sites.

Lickerish Links -- an invitation only and well categorized links page, primarily specializing in picture and video links. All links to free sites, and a conscientious effort by the webmaster to assure that the sites are not links to links or console clogged.

Naughty Lynx -- a Yahoo-style listing for adult sites

Richard's Realm -- Easy links to more than 1500 quality sites with free pictures.

Sinfoseek -- Links separated by category, very compartmentalized, with an adult search engine

2Wet Adult Links -- "The Easy Way To Sex On The Web." Designed for two-clicks-to-a-destination use. Good concept, and the advertising doesn't interfere with the working parts of the site. Lacks descriptions in some spots (which the webmaster says he's working on), and does pop up a half screen ad as you leave, but it's a particularly well planned and very functional links site.

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